Yes...I Said Hate
hate hāt/ verb 1 . feel intense or passionate dislike for (someone, something). "the boys hate each other" synonyms: loathe , detest , despise , dislike , abhor , execrate ; Yes, I know that hate is not an acceptable word especially in the Christian community but I hate cancer. I hate the feelings it generates both with the patient and those around them. Being involved with the American Cancer Society and Relay for Life I have learned a new term "caregiver". A caregiver is anyone who helped to take care of someone with cancer. It is usually a family member or close friend but today I am looking at the caregiver in terms of a spouse - me. In my role of helping to take care of Joe over the past years and now with his third go round with this enemy cancer - in my mind, heart and soul - I am his wife. In sickness and in health. In good times and in bad. I really don't like that whole caregiver concept because I am not doing