My Rambling Thoughts: I've Got What?: CANCER!!!! Where did that come from??? OK, we can do this, a little surgery – snip snip, a little radiation – zap zap and Joe will ...
Melissa: I have always tried to be a friend who listened to others and be understanding and compassionate. I have never wanted to downplay anyone else's story by saying "Oh when I did that" or "That's nice but I.....". I need to share a story with you that I hope will help you and what you are going through with Nicole moving away. In 2006 when David and Lori moved to Texas - I truly thought that I would die of a broken heart. I know that you have heard parts of my feelings when they left but I want to share the rest. Knowing for weeks before that they were leaving gave us time to do things together and as a family that we needed to get done. If you remember, they moved in ...
I've known since I was 8 years old that I would someday die from either a heart attack or a stroke. Almost everyone on both sides of my parents' families have died from a heart issue or a stroke. Even at that young age, I didn't need an explanation. In spite of this theory and my growing annoyance by my Apple Watch shouting "Your heart has shown signs of an irregular rhythm suggestive of atrial fibrillation" I was still shocked when at my last cardiologist appointment, the doctor walked in and said "you are in afib". My appointment six months prior had ended so wonderful - blood pressure lower than it's been in years, weight going down and just feeling great so I was not expecting that diagnosis at all. Atrial Fibrillation - The heart's upper chambers (atria) beat out of coordination with the lower chambers. During a normal heartbeat, the upper chambers (atria) and lower chambers (ventricles) of the heart work together to pum...
February 2007 was a major turning point in our lives. We no longer took things for granted. We no longer failed to thank God every morning for giving us another day of life. We enjoyed our lives. Life quickly returned to normal. Joe went back to work in July of 2007, flying here and there every week. We put cancer behind us, well at least we tried. Every cough, every sore throat, every funny twinge brought the fear very much to the forefront of our minds. Every 6 month check up was pure torture. Fear of what they were going to say. What they were going to find. One year came and went. Two years, three, four, five. Five years that's the biggie - that's CANCER FREE . How wonderful it felt to reach that mark and begin our now cancer free walk into the sixth year. It became a little easier to say I HAD cancer. We were living the life........until August 2012 Julie caught a horrible cold....
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